Deborah James’ parents: 'You don't have grief without love'
It doesn't get any easier and in fact, I think it some grief will never go. It's just a new way of life. You're going to find this difficult. When I say it was a relief when she actually took her last breath because then I knew she was in no more pain because Deborah would hide her pain. For five years she hid her pain. I think of her all the time and I miss all the time, but she's given me the passion of life to go out and live. I think you don't have grief without love and it's very true. We are doing this because we lost a dearly loved daughter. It's great that we are doing this, but we wish the reason for doing it wasn't there.