'I have to go to the graveyard to see my children because of a drunk van driver'

The father of a young brother and sister who were killed by a van driver who had been drinking and had taken drugs has said his “life has been ripped apart” by the tragedy and branded his nine-year prison sentence “ridiculous”.

On Saturday, February 5, four-year-old Gracie-Ann Lucas and her three-year-old brother Jayden-Lee Lucas, were travelling home from a birthday party with their mother Rhiannon Lucas and a friend when their car was hit by a van on the M4. Tragically both siblings, also known by the surname Wheaton, died within days of each other.

Newman was found by police to be more than twice the drink-driving limit after going out with colleagues the night before the crash, and had drunk 10 cans of Strongbow and taken cocaine once he returned to his hotel room. In the defendant’s police interview, Newman said he was shattered during his drive back to Wales the next day, and had “nodded off” a few times.

At a sentencing hearing Newman – who admitted two counts of causing death by dangerous driving, and one of causing serious injury to the children’s mother Rhiannon Lucas by dangerous driving, and charges of drink-driving and drug-driving – was jailed for nine years and four months. He will serve just over four years in custody.

Now the family of the siblings are appealing to have the law changed and has spoken about their grief of losing the young children and their “disgrace” at the sentencing.

Joseph Wheaton, 24, the children’s father, said the crash has “ruined” him and the family. He said, “This has been the worst year of my life. From having the phone to say my kids have been in a car accident, to going into the hospital room, I looked at both of my children and it just didn’t seem right, it broke my heart.”

'i have to go to the graveyard to see my children because of a drunk van driver'
© WalesOnline/ Rob Browne Joseph Wheaton (blue suit releasing dove) stands next to the children’s mother Rhiannon Lucas at the funeral of Gracie-Ann and Jayden-Lee

“I saw them both in the room with all the machines on them, and it just broke my heart. That’s an image I can never forget. Knowing my daughter wouldn’t make it through the night, it hurt me.”

Mr Wheaton said that they were told by doctors initially that Jayden was stable, but sadly Gracie-Ann was not stable. Gracie-Ann died the day after the crash on February 6 while Jayden-Lee died five days later.

“That week I prayed and prayed and prayed. We had some hope that he was moving, they [the doctors] said he had a gag reflex, I was thinking ‘go on boy’,” said Mr Wheaton.

“I blew raspberries on his belly thinking he would come around a bit and instead he farted, and I thought ‘he must be in there’ because he was always a funny boy and that lifted the tension a bit.

“Before Jayden passed away we all had to have a sit-down and talk about it and switching it off and I just kept saying “no I’m not ready to let him go yet. I can’t do it. He can’t go yet, I’m not ready’, he said.

“He breathed for about 10 minutes after it was taken away and that was it then. And it just snapped us all to pieces then. It has ruined us.”

It was confirmed last month that Newman’s sentence would be reviewed. General’s Office has confirmed that an appeal to Newman’s sentence has been received under the ‘Unduly Lenient Sentence (ULS) scheme’. Under this scheme, members of the public can ask the Attorney General’s office to examine sentences handed down by crown courts in England and Wales within 28 days of sentencing and decide whether to refer the case to the Court of Appeal to consider.

An AGO spokesperson said: “We have received a request for this sentence to be considered under the Unduly Lenient Sentence (ULS) scheme. The Law Officers have 28 days from sentencing to consider the case and make a decision.”

“It’s ridiculous how they can only give him what, nine and a half years, and it will get split in half,” said Mr Wheaton. “That man in court said ‘I just want to go and see my children’ and I thought, ‘how disrespectful, I can’t see my children’, on Birthdays and Christmas I have to go up to a graveyard to see my babies.”

The family are calling for Newman to be granted a life sentence for the crash. Mr Wheaton said, “if you go behind a wheel and do that, you can go behind bars. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.”

Newman was sentenced to nine years and four months imprisonment. He was also disqualified from driving for 10 years with an extension of four years and eight months while he is in custody. He will be required to pass an extended driving test before being able to regain a licence. The defendant will serve half of his sentence in custody before serving the rest of the sentence on licence.

“It’s killed me, it’s absolutely snapped me in half, knowing I will never see them again,” said Mr Wheaton. “The amount of times I’ve nearly said ‘how are the kids’ and it hits you,”. It’s really difficult, seeing their photos, I can’t even watch videos of them because it hits me straight away. It’s so hard. Sometimes I just sit and look at their photos and think whats happened. It is really hard to expect.

In paying tribute to his “loving children” he said, “They were the funniest children ever, so full of life. They were the most loving children. They were right characters. I couldn’t help but laugh at them. I miss them terribly, I can’t think of the words, it’s be there forever explaining how much I miss them.”

During sentencing, Judge Williams said his sentencing powers were restricted by guidelines set by Parliament. He said: “This is the most serious level of dangerous driving. It involved a flagrant disregard for the rules of the road and utter disregard to danger being caused to others by your driving.

“The aggravating features are you have previous convictions for motoring offences including drink-driving and using a mobile phone whilst driving and secondly the gravest aggravating feature is you caused two children’s deaths and the serious injury of their mother who is left bereft.

“There’s no real mitigation in this case. Any remorse you feel rather than self-pity does not affect the sentence this court must pass. You have a limited understanding of wider consequences to others affected by the collision. As this was a single incident the court is bound to impose concurrent sentences but to reflect the extent I can the totality of your offending in the sentence passed.

“The maximum sentence is 14 years imprisonment. Many think such a sentence is inadequate to reflect what you have done and there will be many who will call for that maximum sentence to be re-examined. That is not a matter for any court but Parliament. You pleaded guilty at the first opportunity and a reduction cannot be withheld because of an inadequate maximum sentence.”

The children’s grandfather and Rhiannon Lucas’ father, Jason Lucas, 52, has said that he believes Newman “deserves two life sentences” for taking the lives of his grandchildren. He said, “It’s not right, for somebody to be drinking driving and taking drugs to be given a sentence like that. He deserves two life sentences.”

“We want the law to change, not just for us but for other families too so they don’t have to go through this. He should be banned for life and should be in prison for life.

“My feeling is it shouldn’t need to be reviewed, we shouldn’t have to fight, he should have been given a longer sentence full stop. We shouldn’t have to fight this, we have been through enough. Someone could burgle a house and get similar, he has killed two children.

“If he killed one child he would have 15 years anyway, he has killed two. It’s a life for a life. If it was murder he would have life. If it had been an accident, whatever, but he killed them because he had been drinking and taking drugs. He should never be allowed out as far as I am concerned.”

Mr Lucas said that the crash has “ruined” the family’s lives. “I’ll never get over it. In 20-years time I still won’t be over it,” he said. “It’s been a nightmare. How it happened, all of a sudden, it’s ruined our lives. To lose them like that.”

Recalling the crash he said, “I had a phone call to say they had all been in an accident and I was just crying and thinking I had to get down there. It was a terrible, terrible time

“They [the doctors] told me about Gracie Ann when I was in the hospital and I said I had to tell Rhiannon, it was my job to tell her. Rhiannon’s injuries were really bad, she was trying to cwtch Gracie Ann and couldn’t do it, it was that bad.

“We had a little bit of hope that Jayden would pull through and were hoping and hoping but we did have to prepare ourselves too. If he pulled through he would have been deformed for the rest of his life. We knew a bit about how bad his injuries were but there’s the possibility that he wouldn’t be able to walk or talk.” After five days Jayden was sadly taken off life support.

Jason says he feels anger that Newman will be released in four years and is campaigning for a change in the law. He said: “In a few years time he will be able to see his kids, we won’t ever be able to see ours. We have to go up to the graveyard to see ours. We can’t visit them, we visit the graveyard. We can’t buy them sweets as you do, we buy them flowers.”

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