My boyfriend has an 'obsession' with his neighbour even though he claims to 'hate' her - and it's only getting worse: 'I'm so creeped out'

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An Australian woman who moved in with her partner was shocked to discover his 'secret obsession' with a female neighbour.

Posting on a women's Facebook group, the distressed girlfriend was 'tripping out' over her partner's 'deep hatred for his neighbour for no reason'.

The man insulted the neighbour at 'every opportunity', calling her names and mocking the way she dresses.

'Yet when I confront him about why he hates her so much he shrugs it off and gets annoyed,' she said.

The girlfriend's suspicion turned to incredulity when she noticed that her partner had sent the neighbour a Facebook friend request, despite claiming to hate her.

But during a quiet evening in, things went from bad to worse.

While watching a movie, the girlfriend asked her partner to close the curtains.

His window opened onto a view of the neighbour who was outside at the time, and he refused to draw the curtains, creeping out his girlfriend.

An anonymous Australian woman who moved in with her partner was shocked to discover his secret obsession with his female neighbour

The girlfriend was flooded with advice from concerned women.

'He likes her, she won't give him a chance,' said one.

But the 'obsessed' boyfriend only claimed to have sent the friend request because he has 'all the neighbours on social media'.

'But I made a joke to him that he was obsessed and he seems rubbed the wrong way,' she said.

But people weren't buying the man's excuses.

'If I were you I'd be questioning if he was really the man for me. I'd actually be tempted to go and chat with her and find out what interactions she's had with him,' one said.

Everyone agreed that the suspicious behaviour '100 per cent' meant 'he has previously hit on her and she rejected his advances, so now he is 'hostile' and deflecting.

'This is giving me psychotic stalker vibes,' one said.

The anonymous poster agreed, saying it hadn't occurred to her to question how her partner even knew the neighbour's full name for the Facebook friend request.

Two days later she updated the group with the news that she had caught him watching the neighbour from afar and also discovered her picture on his phone.

'I think he's maybe stalking her. I talked to him about my concerns and was met with a kick off so that told me all I need to know. I found a picture of her in his phone also. Surely to god this is more than a little crush? I've not been back to his since,' she concluded.

'I said to him during an argument "anyone would think you was in love with her" and he went quiet. I don't know to do now.'

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